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Friday 13 June 2008

 

 

Press Release … Press Release … Press Release

 

For Immediate Release

 

 

HIV SUPPORT CENTRE

UPSET WITH IRIS ROBINSON'S COMMENTS

 

 

Like many other right thinking people, The HIV Support Centre was shocked to hear the hurtful comments made recently by MLA Iris Robinson, both on radio and TV, in respect of the gay and lesbian community in Northern Ireland.

 

Kieran Harris, Chief Executive Officer said, "I have taken numerous phonecalls from members of both the gay and heterosexual community in Northern Ireland expressing their anger and disappointment at Alderman Robinson's comments"

 

He added, "I believe that Alderman Robinsons comments were very ill advised and extremely hurtful to a significant number of people throughout the north of Ireland and I would hope that, on reflection, Alderman Robinson might now take steps to heal the hurt that she has caused to so many."

 

The British Association of Psychiatrists have confirmed that Alderman Robinson's comments have been offered without any medical evidence to support them.

 

The HIV Support Centre offers information, advice and support to people irrespective of their sexual orientation.  It can be contacted on 02890 249268 or for confidential advice on Freephone 0800 137 437.

 

ENDS

 

For further information and comment on The HIV Support Centre please contact Kieran Harris at The HIV Support Centre on 028 9024 9268 (9am – 5pm) or for information on The HIV Support Centre visit www.info@thehivsupportcentre.org.uk

 

Gay Pride 2008

The HIV Support Centre will be taking part in this year's annual Gay Pride Event in August 2008.

 

The first Saturday of August is Pride Day in Belfast, the highlight of the gay calendar in Northern Ireland and the climax to the week long programme of festivities.

 

Last year The HIV Support Centre with six and a half thousand LGBT people, friends, families and supporters sang, danced and cheered their way through Belfast City Centre accompanied by a range of floats and a plethora of flags, banners and placards.

 

The event is one of Northern Ireland's largest carnivals, bringing a spectacle of colour, music and energy onto the streets of Belfast. The parade really is a great opportunity for all LGBT people, friends, families and supporters to express our diversity, freedom and unity. 

 

If anyone would like to join us at the event, please email stuart@thehivsupportcentre.org.uk for more information.  At this stage it's likely the route will remain much the same as last year, but the Pride Committee will publish any changes well in advance. As always the parade will start and finish at Party in the Square.

 

We look forward to seeing you there. 

Wednesday 11 June 2008

 
Stuart Kirk
The HIV Support Centre
Floor 3, 7 James Street South
BELFAST
County Antrim
BT2 8DN
 
Tel: 028 90 249 268
Fax: 028 90 329 845
 
Helpline: 0800 137 437
For information, advice and support on HIV/AIDS and general sexual health.

Thursday 7 February 2008

Plans for HIV Support Centre in Derry

(Taken from The Sunday)

 

The HIV Support Centre in Belfast held their first ever meeting in Derry on Thursday night and its Chief Executive told the SUNDAY it was time they brought their service to the city. 

 

The meeting, which was attended by local support groups was the first in many steps in a plan to give people living with HIV and their loved ones a choice in where they can go for support, collection of medication and avail of the support groups facilities locally instead of travelling to Belfast. 

 

Chief Executive, Kieran Harris told the SUNDAY: "This is the first meeting we've held in Derry because I want what we do in Belfast to be available to the people of Derry, I want to spread the message of who we are and that we want to offer our services in Derry because I don't believe people should have to travel to Belfast". 

 

"We want to be more visible in Derry and this is what we want to do in the North West, we're opening an office in Coleraine and Limavady and we want to work with the voluntary and community sector in Derry as well.  The meeting is about offering people a choice, I understand that there is confidentiality issues around HIV and people may wish to go to Belfast for indeed Dublin for their medication. But if they have a choice of where they can go, they do what best first in with them". 

 

Mr Harris was also very keen to make the public aware that HIV is not a 'gay disease', he said:  "People do tent to link HIV to gay people but the fastest growing rate of HIV in Northern Ireland among 14 – 29 years – old heterosexual women.  Young girls go on holiday and if they have a drink and forget to be careful, it happens and we wan to get away from the gay stigma and educate people."

 

Mr Harris added "We'll also be working with schools, colleges and voluntary groups to educate people.  What we're saying is be careful, we'd rather be contributing factor in people knowing the facts".
 

LIVING POSITIVELY WITH HIV

(Taken from article in THE SUNDAY)

 

When we read stories of people living with HIV we are nearly always given the horror stories of the disease and over the years it has been linked with the gay community only. 

 

The reality is, HIV affects both men and women, gay and straight and the latest figures for Northern Ireland clearly show that the fastest growing rates for the disease is among young heterosexual women aged 14 – 29 years.  I'm in that age bracket, many readers of this article are in this age bracket, my younger sister is, cousins and friends – that the reality of HIV. 

 

When I read that The HIV Support Centre in Belfast was holding a meeting in Derry on Thursday night I had no idea where my research would lead me.  On Thursday afternoon I rang The HIV Support Centre and was put on to John, a man living with HIV. 

 

John openly told me his story but unlike many other stories I've heard, he didn't dwell on the horrors, his message was clear from the outset – get people educated and show people you can live with the disease, but its up to you how. 

"Ten years ago on the 7 October 1997 I was diagnosed.  I got a call and I knew right away that I had it, the person tried to deny it but I just knew.  I take full responsibility for it, I neglected my own sexual health and I had a responsibility to myself.  Yeah, it was then they dropped the bombshell and the only way to describe that feeling is you can either sink or swim with it.  There's a gap between living with HIV negative or HIV positive and I made the decision that I'm going to beat this thing".  It hasn't been easy, I spent two years after that walking around in a daze and it was hard dealing with the practical things.  Thinks like informing my family and friends, paying my bills, working, how you're affected mentally and your mental state within work and that prospect of whom you're gong to tell"

 

The 40 year – old told the SUNDAY what the reaction was like from his friends and family, he said "I've had friends for what ever reasons, who've abandoned me, but I've been very lucky in that my friends, my father, sister and brother-in-law were all great.  My mum had a bit of difficulty at the start but she came around and its very important to have that safe environment.  I'm also extremely lucky in the fact that I was born and diagnosed here.  If I had been born in Africa I'd have been well dead by now.  Look at what's available to me, the medication, and the support, I do feel lucky in that sense". 

 

Even with his bright outlook, the volunteer worker at The Centre said he does get days when he wishes he never had the disease:  "It was life changing to an extend that there's days I sit and cry and say 'I don't want this' and there's times I think even if it went away for a day just to give me a rest but that's never going to happen, I know that.

 

"But it has strengthened my character, I have a good fighting spirit, I have self esteem, I have a louder voice and I've got great faith.  This entire province has suffered injustice over the years but you have to ask yourself if you're going to grow bitter over it or move on.  For me, in this respect I moved on.  I have a strong faith and it has in a sense, brought me through, I think, 'my family and friends are putting up with me' and that makes all the difference."

 

The global emblem for HIV campaigns is the red ribbon, which first became prominent at the 1991 Tony Awards in America when actor Jeremy Irons wore one.  Over the years the wearing of ribbon has declined. 

 

John said after a time the ribbon lost its 'compassionate' meaning and instead gained a 'gay meaning' as John points out: "we (the HIV Support Centre) campaigned last year for the red ribbon.  My aim was to get the Red Ribbon out there, for some reason it began to have a symbol for being gay or having HIV – it means having compassion.  It means the person wearing it doesn't mind sharing the same toilet or using my cutlery.  The campaign has to be continued and happing all the time until they find a vaccination or a cure.  The words you can use and the stories you tell are important.  Great things are happening here at this organisation and it has a responsibility for putting the red ribbon on the map again and they have a huge responsibility to educate". 

 

John who is now studying in Indian Head massage to help him 'get out of the benefit trap' he found himself in hammers home the reality of HIV in Northern Ireland, he told the SUNDAY: "Globally it is a heterosexual disease and the only reason it seems more prominent in the gay community is because gay men will go and get tested.  Ignoring the fact you might have it will spread it. At this organisation we're not trying to reach out to people like more or the staff what work here, but those in housing estates, schools, into the communities you know?"